10 SeXXXy Ideas for Valentines Day
January 22nd, 2010 by GaryValentine’s Day is upon us. A time for romance, love and lust to take hold of playful couples and horny singles… and a time for swingers to enjoy some extraordinary, passion-infused sex & fun. Here are a few smokin’ ideas to add some XXXtra spice to your Valentine’s Day!
- Pamper yourselves with a couples massage at a day spa. “It’s a relaxing, sensual experience that can put you in an amorous mood. Then, try out some of the tricks you learned at home, using massage oils, of course.
- Experiment with sensual foods. Chocolate, bananas, strawberries each have aphrodisiac tendencies. Introduce these into your playtime for sweet seduction.
- Surprise your sweetheart with his or her favorite morning meal in bed on Valentine’s Day. Of course, serving/enjoying it in lingerie would make it that much better.
- For the ultimate sexy gift, use your creative juices to put together a bag of treats for your man – not candy treats, but the adult kind. Buy a heart-shaped bag or basket and fill it up with toys and tricks you know he will like.
- Forget slaving over a hot stove! Bring home a prepared meal from a place like My Girlfriend’s Kitchen, get dolled up and/or suit and enjoy a romantic evening together by candlelight. Don’t forget the soft music to sweep her off her feet. It’s sure to be one of your most memorable dates!
- If staying doesn’t do it for you, nothing works better than a romantic trip for two (or more). As opposed to staying at an impersonal hotel, a weekend at a bed and breakfast shows you really care, and the included breakfast meal means you can spend even more quality time together. For a wide selection of bed and breakfast inns all over the country, check out bbonline.com.
- The perfect gift!!!! She wears them…. He controls them! Vibrating panties, like these from Booty Parlor, should make for some naughty fun in, or out, of the house!
- If you’re entertaining more than just your significant other on V-day you may want to suggest a Lifestyle-friendly game of Spin the Bottle! This requires a little bit of preparation, but will be worth every second. Using a glass bottle, cut long slivers of paper that will fit in the bottle, but that can be tipped out easily, write steamy actions on each and put them in the bottle. As each person takes a turn, they will spin the bottle, remove a “task” and perform it on the lucky guy or gal that it lands on!
- Do you have a talent for writing? Write your darling an erotic story and read it to them, slowly…. allowing each tantalizing detail to linger. Turn up the heat by acting out each scene. Can you get through the whole story?!
- Celebrate the Day of Love with you favorite local swingers! Organize an intimate meet and greet or romantic double date! If you’re looking to turn up the heat a little check out a lifestyle party or club to meet new local swingers.
Party Games for Swingers
August 24th, 2009 by BridgetAs we close out the last days of summer with pool parties and midnight skinny dips, the adventurous ones downshift into the winter hibernation of cocktails, home-cooked dinners and relaxing by the fire with their favorite couples. It seems only an appropriate time to break out the bedroom toys and gear up for games, thus I offer you sexy swingers a collection of icebreakers and games to add spark and excitement to your indoor gatherings. These party games for swingers will tantalize, seduce and warm-up even the quietest guest.
Getting your Wife to Swing. (A Female’s Perspective)
August 20th, 2009 by BridgetAre you interested in Swinging, but aren’t sure how to approach your wife about trying it?
This is an extremely delicate matter, so it’s best to approach your wife by putting yourself in her shoes. Go into the conversation hoping to succeed in your efforts, but do not get upset or frustrated at your woman if she is not interested right away. Opening her mind to the idea of swinging is the first step in the process. Once she’s had a chance to think on it she’ll likely come to you with questions and intrigue. If this is not the outcome of your conversation be prepared for her to wonder if you will be unfaithful. Understanding what swinging really means may set her mind, and heart, at ease from this concern. Swinging promotes monogamy in the love between both partners, but opens the sexual activity up to others outside the relationship.
Secret to Swallow Sweeter Semen
July 3rd, 2009 by Jamie“You are what you eat,” of course, we’ve all heard this old adage but did you know it’s true? One of the most common complaints to oral sex is the taste at the end. Usually described as salty, and on occasions somewhat acrid. This is because less then 10% of cum is semen, the rest is made up of nutrients and trace minerals to protect and nourish the semen. As you may guess since so much is nutrients, what you eat can easily determine the flavour.
What Women Love and Hate About Anal
June 26th, 2009 by GaryAnal sex is just one of those things: she either loves it, or she hates it. There is very little in between. Most women have tried it at some point, and a fair few of them will never dare again despite their hankering to be one of the “lucky ones” who love anal sex. The reason for this avoidance is clear: pain. If there was no pain, there was probably pleasure. Hence, love or hate.
It is true, however, that while you’re trying to “get it right” there are likely to be some painful moments, practice makes perfect and it’s the ability to maneuver oneself and try different styles that allows anal sex to be pleasurable.
We’ve decided to let you in on what women love and hate about anal sex so you can enter the situation sufficiently informed and ready to rock her world.