Destination Delight / Traveling with your Sex Toys
June 27th, 2010 by BridgetWhether you’re planning a summer escape with your sweetie or a business trip that will find you cooped up alone in a hotel room, many people travel with their favorite sex toys. You’ll want to consider some sensible travel tips to make sure you and your toys make it to your destination discreetly and safely.
When flying keep in mind that TSA is going to x-ray your bags no matter what and when the contents of your carry-on are viewed on screen, your personal pleasure makers may appear to be something more threatening than they are. Exercise good judgment when packing and consider the potential for your sex toy to be mistaken for a weapon. While its purpose MAY be to bring a tit-ilizing bit of pain, you wouldn’t want airport security to deem your dong a deadly device.
Pack your batteries and liquids separately. Battery-powered objects may appear more menacing to an x-ray scanner. It’s ideal to pack fresh batteries still in their pack, and away from the toy itself. In-flight, liquids tend to explode or leak, so a Ziploc bag is the perfect storage container for your favorite lube or toy cleaner.
It is wise to approach security checkpoints expecting to have your luggage searched. Don’t panic or freak out and run the other way, bag in tow. Airport security has seen it all, and your sex toys will cause you to blush before the straight-faced security office. If your bag is selected as the special one to be searched just discreetly inform the officer about your sensitive items. Airport employees are trained to exercise discretion and your calm, collected cooperation will help avoid embarrassment to you both. A non-see-through pouch, to house your toy, will afford you more time to spill the beans, and keep your sexy secrets from lying right out there for the world to see.
When traveling with your full arsenal, keep in mind that all toys are not created equal, nor do they play well together. Package your silicone, rubber or latex toys separate from each other, and in a lint-free cloth or pouch.
No matter what, don’t get discouraged. Having your toys in tow ALWAYS makes for a better trip. Just remember to be smart and stay one step ahead of security so you and your playful pals survive the rigors of travel.
Save-A-Swinger Awareness Month!
April 29th, 2010 by GaryDear Friends,
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Personal Lubricant – Your Personal Choice
March 30th, 2010 by Gary
Quality lubrication is a valuable component of great sex. Even if you don’t think you need lube, you’d be surprised at what it can do for your sex life. Using a high quality personal lubricant is the quickest, easiest and, usually, most effective solution for vaginal dryness and to increase condom performance. To enhance pleasure, simply dab a drop or two of lube on the tip of the penis before putting on the condom. Adding another touch to the outside of the condom will make both partners more comfortable and decreases the chance of breakage. Lube will help prolong your intimate sessions, and make masturbation more enjoyable. Not to mention, if you’re a part of the growing majority of couples experimenting with anal sex, it’s virtually a must.
Sexual lubricant is widely popular, but is a very personal choice and therefore comes in many different types. Most of these will fall into three main categories: water-based, silicone-based and oil-based. Each type has their pros and cons. For an added bonus, most manufacturers tweak their basic formulas to extend their product lines to offer flavored lubes and warming lubes.
For most situations, a basic water-based lube, such as Slick Willy, is by far the most popular choice. Water-based lubes like Slick Willy are water-soluble, their main advantage being that they are smooth and silky, not sticky and messy like silicone and oil-based lubes can be. Clean up is a breeze with just a little water, and some soap if you prefer. Depending on how long your sessions go, you may need to reapply, a minor set-back with this type of lube. For a long lasting, soft and silky water-based lube, I recommend Slick Willy, designed specifically for enhancing sex and masturbation.
Anal sex usually requires something a bit thicker, and sometimes a desensitizing lube which will include a numbing agent. Silicone-based lubricants take ages to dry out and will stay slippery until washed off with soap. This basically eliminates the need to reapply, a huge advantage if you’re looking for a shower-worthy lube. For some this is IT, but for others it may feel like having motor oil slathered on your privates.
Oil-based lubes, while a preference for some masturbators, come with a variety of warnings for use during sex. First, they will corrode latex, so use with a condom is not recommended. Secondly, oil-based lubes tend to stick around longer and can trap bacteria in orifices, increasing the risk of infection. When love making involves latex, it’s best to stick with a water-based lube, like Slick Willy, that’s made especially for enhancing sexual pleasure.
To make the most out of your sessions, experiment a little to find the one that works for you and your partner. To try Slick Willy water-based lubricant, visit www.SlickWilly.com. It’s long-lasting, silky smooth formula is as close to the real thing as it gets.
10 SeXXXy Ideas for Valentines Day
January 22nd, 2010 by GaryValentine’s Day is upon us. A time for romance, love and lust to take hold of playful couples and horny singles… and a time for swingers to enjoy some extraordinary, passion-infused sex & fun. Here are a few smokin’ ideas to add some XXXtra spice to your Valentine’s Day!
- Pamper yourselves with a couples massage at a day spa. “It’s a relaxing, sensual experience that can put you in an amorous mood. Then, try out some of the tricks you learned at home, using massage oils, of course.
- Experiment with sensual foods. Chocolate, bananas, strawberries each have aphrodisiac tendencies. Introduce these into your playtime for sweet seduction.
- Surprise your sweetheart with his or her favorite morning meal in bed on Valentine’s Day. Of course, serving/enjoying it in lingerie would make it that much better.
- For the ultimate sexy gift, use your creative juices to put together a bag of treats for your man – not candy treats, but the adult kind. Buy a heart-shaped bag or basket and fill it up with toys and tricks you know he will like.
- Forget slaving over a hot stove! Bring home a prepared meal from a place like My Girlfriend’s Kitchen, get dolled up and/or suit and enjoy a romantic evening together by candlelight. Don’t forget the soft music to sweep her off her feet. It’s sure to be one of your most memorable dates!
- If staying doesn’t do it for you, nothing works better than a romantic trip for two (or more). As opposed to staying at an impersonal hotel, a weekend at a bed and breakfast shows you really care, and the included breakfast meal means you can spend even more quality time together. For a wide selection of bed and breakfast inns all over the country, check out bbonline.com.
- The perfect gift!!!! She wears them…. He controls them! Vibrating panties, like these from Booty Parlor, should make for some naughty fun in, or out, of the house!
- If you’re entertaining more than just your significant other on V-day you may want to suggest a Lifestyle-friendly game of Spin the Bottle! This requires a little bit of preparation, but will be worth every second. Using a glass bottle, cut long slivers of paper that will fit in the bottle, but that can be tipped out easily, write steamy actions on each and put them in the bottle. As each person takes a turn, they will spin the bottle, remove a “task” and perform it on the lucky guy or gal that it lands on!
- Do you have a talent for writing? Write your darling an erotic story and read it to them, slowly…. allowing each tantalizing detail to linger. Turn up the heat by acting out each scene. Can you get through the whole story?!
- Celebrate the Day of Love with you favorite local swingers! Organize an intimate meet and greet or romantic double date! If you’re looking to turn up the heat a little check out a lifestyle party or club to meet new local swingers.
Party Games for Swingers
August 24th, 2009 by BridgetAs we close out the last days of summer with pool parties and midnight skinny dips, the adventurous ones downshift into the winter hibernation of cocktails, home-cooked dinners and relaxing by the fire with their favorite couples. It seems only an appropriate time to break out the bedroom toys and gear up for games, thus I offer you sexy swingers a collection of icebreakers and games to add spark and excitement to your indoor gatherings. These party games for swingers will tantalize, seduce and warm-up even the quietest guest.